Tuesday, June 28, 2011

Prayer for the Boy Who Calls Me "Gram"

I have another request this week but this time it is only for prayer, as if there truly was such a thing as "only" a prayer. And this week the intended benefactor is my own grandson.

Fen, the blog name of our 2-year-old grandson, became ill on the ride home from their Florida vacation. By the next evening he looked like a child suffering from the mumps, an illness that some of us remember from our own childhood.

The doctor on call told Fen's parents to get him to the hospital immediately as a ping-pong ball sized lump on the throat is something that needs immediate attention.  A CT scan showed an abscess that required surgery.

Yesterday was a surreal experience, both pre- and post-operative.  The underlying illness also caused him to suffer from a high fever. We were very thankful that by the time we left the hospital last night this had broken. 

This afternoon Pastor Dad received a phone call from Fen asking if we'd come play. His worn out parents were reaching the end of their reserves when it came to keeping the recovering toddler occupied so when Fen asked to call his mother gladly dialed our number.  


When we got there he was still hooked up to the i.v. (which he hates) and was in a hospital gown (which he also hates) but he looked quite presentable in his own pajama bottoms.  The hated i.v. stand didn't hinder him much as he climbed over and under beds.  We talked the nurses into providing boxes of Brio train sets that we could build on the floor.  (Even post-surgery the little guy had more energy than we did!)

Once he tired of the in-room play, his parents and I took him on a walk.  When we reached the elevators we pushed the button and he pointed at the door that he insisted would be the one to open.  Since there were at least four of them the odds didn't seem to be in his favor, but somehow I wasn't surprised when the desired one opened.  Those in the family will understand this comment that I made to Princess, "Your son seems to have inherited your 'orange gumball' magic."  She grinned and nodded.

We joined several other families walking patients through the lobby. There are child-level buttons to push, colorful murals and decorations with interesting lighting and three-dimensional features designed to entertain the little ones who pass that way.  At one point Fen wistfully watched the cars outside coming and going and his look made me wonder if he would make a break for it if he caught us off our guard.  He is obviously ready to say his farewells.  All the pain, poking, and prodding is beyond his comprehension.

In spite of his strenuous objections we made our way back to his room.  The activity had helped to expend his pent-up energy and he was ready for a nap.  He was successfully corralled in the bed and we left when he dozed off.  The play date was over.



We're praying that our little guy will be well enough to be released tomorrow.  But we're very thankful to have a quality facility such as Cincinnati Children's Hospital nearby when one of the youngest members of our family needs the care that they so ably provide.


Remember this little man in your prayers, please.  He has been such a brave little fellow!

Tuesday, June 21, 2011

Not "Just" Another Boy and Dog Story

I guess most boys want a dog. I know The Bear just about drove me nuts a few years ago begging for a puppy. Granted,that's a short trip, but you know what I mean. The result was Pepper the Mega-Mutt, the dog who has hastened my arrival at Nutsville.

We got ol' Pep for The Bear's birthday a few years back after he broke down sobbing while reading Where The Red Fern Grows, a classic boy-and-his-dogs story. I probably should've planned his literature studies a bit more carefully that year, knowing his heart's desire. Bad teacher! Bad, bad mom!{Sigh}

Anyway, I'm about to ask your help get a dog for a boy who doesn't just want one. He needs one. His dog will be a service animal. The dog requires extensive and expensive training in order to help someone who has Autism. The boy's name is Aiden and he is the grandson of my blogging friend, Karin Ristau. Aiden and his family need help obtaining the funds for the dog's training.

I've requested donations before for various ministries that I think MATTER. And I thank those who sent them. Most of the time the highlighted ministries use our donations to help people whose faces we'll never see this side of eternity, but you can see pictures of the little guy and the dog here. Look for the pictures of Aiden and Hiro and locate the nearby donation button link.

My recent donation will only cover one hour's worth of training but every little bit helps. I plan to make further donations as I'm able.

I want to help this boy get his dog! You sure didn't hear me making that statement a few years ago!

Thanks for any help you can give.

Monday, June 20, 2011

A Monday Morale Boost

This is for those of us who dislike Mondays. ("Hate" seemed such a strong word.)

There really isn't anything "ordinary" about every day life. How quickly we forget! How often we need reminded.

Enjoy this song song by Sarah McLachlan.




This is the day which the Lord hath made;
we will rejoice and be glad in it.
Psalm 118:24

Sunday, June 19, 2011

In Honor of Father's Day

Happy Father's Day to all the Godly fathers, including my own! In honor of the event, my blogging friend, Karin, of Yesterday, Today, Forever wrote a poem that she allowed to be copied and shared. (Thanks, Karin.)

A father's hands provide well for his family,
In quiet strength he leads and he protects.
Gently he guides, builds up, gives affirmation,
Each child in truth and tenderness corrects.
A father's soul is blessed with joy and gladness
He sees each one with tender eyes of love.
He finds new strength while listening, talking, praying
With God, His heavenly Father up above.
A father's heart is open wide for others.
He shares his faith and is a loyal friend.
Gives of himself in ways one cannot measure,
Is patient, kind, each quarrel he will mend.
A father's love, a precious, treasured blessing!
It gives assurance for the trials children face.
It conquers fear, gives strength for every testing.
May you always know his love, his heart of grace!
Karin Ristau©